Birth Order Trait

Here is a table showing some of the birth order character traits, both bad and good, associated with first, middle, last-born, and only children.

First	Middle	Last	Only
Natural Leader	Flexible	Risk-taker	Close to parents
High Achiever	Easy-going	Outgoing	Self-control
Organized	Social	Creative	Leader
On-time	Peacemakers	Self-centered	Mature
Know-it-all	Independent	Financially irresponsible	Dependable
Bossy	Secretive	Competitive	Demanding
Responsible	May feel life is unfair	Bored easily	Unforgiving
Adult-pleaser	Strong negotiator	Likes to be pampered	Private
Obeys  the   rules	Generous	Sense of humor	Sensitive

Believe it or not, there is something that influences your personality even before you take your first breath. This is your birth order. Research shows that a person's birth order has a direct link with his or her personality.

For me, I do believe that it is true that all of us are purportedly born with traits, coincidentally.

Statistics show that the last born is least likely to be disciplined and the least likely to have to toe the mark, the way the older children did. It is indeed!, in my case.

I am the youngest among 4 siblings. I have 2 elder sisters and one elder brother. Based on my past, I think, i'm the most irresponsible child, compared to the other 3. As the youngest child, i used to take things for granted. It is seldom for me to think seriously before doing something. Besides, as the youngest one, I love to be pampered, which cause my parents to spend more time and money for me, in order to fill my needs and desire. And unfortunately, I have been a spoil brat in the past. 

As my story goes, I'm the only one, among my siblings, who failed matriculation program.

I wasted a lot of my parents money during my matriculation program. One could not imagine how ungrateful I am with the life i had during that period of time. My parents sent me there to further my studies, which is one step left for me to enter the university. However, like being the black sheep of the family, I used to skip class heavily.

Finally, I have failed my Mathematics subject for the final semester, and it caused me a bad situation. Matriculation's undergraduates cannot failed any 3 subjects, 
(Either Biology, Mathematics & Chemistry for science stream, or Physics, Mathematics & Chemistry for physics stream). If any subject is failed, they are unable to enter universities for Bachelor Program. Therefore, I have wasted 1 year of my life, which my parents expected me to gain a success, but i gave them a FAILURE.

I have badly disappointed my parents that time. But lucky for me, their lots of love and support never fade away. So here am I, trying to be a better man, away from my dark past, building back the trust and hopes to succeed in this life. 

"Children are truly the future of the world, and by understanding what influences their personalities, we have a better chance of making the future amazing."

By,
Renji Abdul Rahman